9 Tips for Finding the Right Therapist

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When thinking about how to find a therapist, it’s important to consider local resources, apps, organizations, and reliable online therapy options. Here’s everything you need to know.

If you’re considering therapy — whether it’s to restore a relationship, recover from trauma, adjust to a new life phase, or improve your mental health — finding the right therapist is the first hurdle to cross.

Researchers have found that the bond between you and your therapist is likely to have a big impact on your growth. That’s why it’s important to do your research, ask questions, and pay attention to your own responses in your search for the therapist that’s right for you.

Melissa Lee RETURNING TO THERAPY

Compatibility is everything

Having someone that’s completely unbiased listen to me and provide advice always feels as though a massive weight has been lifted off my chest. When I returned to therapy in the past year, it was admittedly a little difficult to find someone I clicked with and could afford to see regularly. I went through my health insurance network and made sure to check off specialties, like anxiety, depression, and trauma. Prior to meeting in person, we had a 15-minute consultation call where I explained what I was looking for and she told me about herself and her experience. From there, we mutually agreed that it could be a good fit.

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Here are some tried-and-true methods for finding a therapist to help you reach your therapeutic goals.

If you plan to pay for therapy through your insurance plan, your first step might be to look through your plan’s provider network.

It’s also a good idea to find out whether your plan limits the number of sessions you can attend each year and whether using an out-of-network therapist will affect your out-of-pocket costs.

You can still see a therapist that’s outside of your health insurance, but it may be more expensive. However, sliding scales exist, and if you develop a strong connection with a mental health professional that isn’t covered by your network, you can see if your insurance will reimburse you for appointment costs.

Looking for ways to support your mental health and well-being? Try Austra Health’s FindCare tool to connect with mental health professionals nearby or virtually so you can get the care you need.

A referral from a friend, colleague, or doctor you trust is another way to find a therapist who might be a good fit for you.

While a referral is a good place to start, it’s important to recognize that you may have different needs and goals with your therapy than the person giving you the recommendation.

So, a good match for one of you might not be as beneficial to the other.

A number of mental health organizations maintain up-to-date, searchable databases of licensed therapists.

Your search could start as simply as typing in your ZIP code to generate a list of counselors in your area. You may also be able to search for specialists, like marriage and family counselors or therapists who focus on drug and alcohol use.

Some of the most commonly used online search tools include:

• American Psychological Association
• American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists
• Association of LGBTQ+ Psychiatrists

If you’re a part of a specific community, there may be some resources available.

Additionally, depending on where you live, there may be local support groups or organizations you can attend at neighborhood meeting spots, like a community center.

If you’re looking for a therapist to help with a specific mental health condition, you might find local therapists through a national association, network, or helpline.

Here are a few examples of organizations that offer search tools to help you find a specialized therapist near you:

• National Eating Disorders Association
• Anxiety and Depression Association of America
• National Center for PTSD

Additionally, many workplace organizations and trade unions have resources to help you identify professionals who can assist with mental health needs. For example, the International Association of Firefighters offers help with mental health, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and substance use.

Resources for People of Color

Access to culture-conscious therapists is important for your well-being. Here are some resources to consider when looking for a therapist:

• The Yellow Couch Collective, an online support group for Black women
• Therapy for Black Girls
• Black Mental Health Alliance
• The National Asian American Pacific Islander Mental Health Association, a nonprofit dedicated to the mental health and well-being of the Asian American and Pacific Islander communities
• WeRNative, which provides Native American youth with tools for holistic health and growth, including mental health resources
• Therapy for Latinx

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What do you want to accomplish in therapy? Studies have found that when you and your therapist both work together toward the same goals, your outlook will be better.

If you think some type of medication may help with your symptoms, you’ll want to find a psychiatrist or practitioner who can prescribe medications.

If you’ve heard that cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) or eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) therapy have been effective for others with your condition, you’ll want to look for a therapist with certifications or specialized training in those treatment approaches.

If you want to be part of a supportive network of people who understand your experiences, you may want to consider looking for a therapist who’s involved with support groups or group therapy sessions.

Your goals may change as you work with a therapist. It’s OK to talk with your therapist about changing the direction of your treatment plan as your needs evolve.

When you meet your therapist, whether it’s online, on the phone, or in person, it’s not uncommon to completely forget every question you wanted to ask.

To make sure you have the information you need to make a good decision, keep paper and a pen, or a notes app, handy for a few days before your meeting. Jot down questions as they come to you.

The American Psychological Association suggests a few questions for you to consider asking your therapist during your first session:

• Are you a licensed psychologist in this state?
• How many years have you been in practice?
• How much experience do you have working with people who are dealing with [the issue you’d like to resolve]?
• What do you consider to be your specialty or area of expertise?
• What kinds of treatments have you found effective in resolving [the issue you’d like to resolve]?
• What insurance do you accept?
• Will I need to pay you directly and then seek reimbursement from my insurance company, or do you bill the insurance company?
• Are you part of my insurance network?
• Do you accept Medicare or Medicaid?

• If I need medication, can you prescribe it or recommend someone who does?
• Do you provide access to telehealth services?
• How soon can I expect to start feeling better?
• What do we do if our treatment plan isn’t working?

Note: If you’ve ever been abused by someone in authority or affected by historic trauma or racism, you may want to ask questions that help you find out whether a potential therapist is culturally informed and sensitive to your experiences.

Pay attention to red flags

Regardless of whether you see a therapist in-person or virtually for the first time, you’ll want to pay attention to any factors that make you feel uncomfortable. Therapy is meant to be a welcoming and accepting space for any and all feelings that come up.

Some red flags to potentially look out for include:

• Does the room make you feel physically uncomfortable? Does it feel private and secure?
• Are you experiencing overwhelming feelings of anxiety or panic? Some anxiety or nervousness is understandable, but you’ll want to communicate to your therapist if you’re experiencing symptoms of an anxiety or panic attack.
• Do you feel comfortable telling your therapist anything? Are they making you feel judged or uneasy in any way?
• Is your therapist completely present with you throughout your session?

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No matter how many professional accreditations your therapist has, your own feelings of trust and comfort should be your top priority. Will therapy be uncomfortable from time to time? Possibly. After all, you’ll likely be discussing difficult, personal topics.

But if you feel uncomfortable with your therapist for any other reason, it’s all right to look for someone else.

You don’t need a reason to switch therapists. It’s enough that you don’t feel comfortable.

Here are a few things to notice as you talk with your therapist:

• Does the therapist interrupt you, or do they listen carefully to what you’re saying?
• Does the therapist respect your time by being prompt to appointments?
• Does the therapist brush off or invalidate your concerns?
• Do you feel seen, heard, and respected during your session?

Talkspace and BetterHelp both offer tools to help you explore the kind of therapy you want. They can also match you with a licensed, accredited therapist you can work with online or via phone.

Some people find a digital therapy platform to be more convenient and more affordable than in-person therapy. Weekly sessions range from $35 to $80 for online therapy.

At least one study found that people with depression felt that their symptoms improved after online sessions. It’s worth noting, however, that two of the researchers involved with this study were consultants or employees of the digital therapy provider used.

Teletherapy options

Teletherapy, which is therapy done remotely over the phone or via videoconferencing, makes it easy to explore therapy and its options. It’s convenient, and studies have shown that therapy conducted over video chat can be just as effective as in-person therapy.

Here are some options.

BetterHelp

This option has over 12,000 licensed professionals in its network, including psychologists, clinical social workers, and marriage and family therapists. BetterHelp therapists can help people with anxiety, depression, addiction, grief, and other issues.

Get 20% off your first month with code “healthline.”

Talkspace

With over 3,000 licensed therapists, Talkspace offers options for people with a wide range of needs, from depression to PTSD. They offer counseling for individuals, couples, and teens.

Get $100 off using code “SPACE.”

Amwell

If you’re looking for physical and psychological health services, with doctor or therapist visits available 24/7, Amwell is a great user-friendly platform. Couples and individual therapy sessions are available for trauma, depression, life transitions, and more.

Teen Counseling

This is a great resource for teens ages 13 to 19 and caregivers. The therapists in Teen Counseling specialize in issues affecting teens, such as stress and eating disorders. The platform offers live chats, phone calls, videoconferencing, and messaging with licensed therapists.

Pride Counseling

This option offers safe and supportive mental health services for LGBTQ+ people. Pride Counseling matches you with a counselor who fits your therapy objectives and needs.

Comparison chart

Pricing	Insurance coverage	Highlights	What it’s best for
BetterHelp	ranges from $60–$90 a week, depending on your plan and how often you see your therapist; you’ll be billed monthly	not accepted	– talk with your therapist via text, live chat, phone call, and video – easy to change therapists – financial aid available	quick and easy access to licensed professionals
Talkspace	$276–$396 per month, depending on which plan you choose	some insurance plans may cover Talkspace costs	– no contracts, so you can cancel anytime – couples therapy and psychiatry services available	comprehensive mental healthcare
Amwell	therapy visits start at $99 per session	accepted by some insurance networks	– appointments are available 24/7 – you can choose your therapist	low cost counseling
Teen Counseling	ranges from $60–$90 per week	not accepted	– messages remain private, with some exceptions – great option for teens hesitant about beginning counseling	teenagers interested in starting counseling
Pride Counseling	$60–$90 per week	not accepted	– all counselors have a minimum of 3 years and 1,000 hours of experience providing therapy – you can switch therapists at any point	members of the LGBTQIA+ community

In the event that you meet with a therapist for the first time and decide that they’re not a good match for you, know that that’s completely fine. It’s totally normal and happens to many people who are looking for the right therapist for them. It can take some time to find someone that you feel completely comfortable with.

At the end of your first session, your therapist may want to schedule another appointment. If you know that you do not want to meet with them again, you can let them know that while you appreciate their time, you don’t think that it’s a good match at this time.

If you feel uncomfortable communicating this to them face-to-face, you can also text, call, or even email them to let them know you’re no longer interested in seeing them.

Regardless of how you choose to tell them, it’s important that you do inform them, instead of not showing up to your next appointment without an explanation. Many therapists have cancellation policies, so make sure you cancel at least 24 hours before your appointment to avoid a fee.

Therapists and psychiatrists aim to treat mental health conditions and improve emotional well-being. But there are key differences between the two professions.

Therapists

Therapists are licensed mental health professionals, including psychologists, social workers, and counselors. They aim to help people manage their emotions, build healthier relationships, and understand themselves better.

Therapists use talk therapy and behavior modification techniques to help people make positive life changes. During therapy, they can assess, diagnose, and treat mental health conditions.

Therapy typically suits people who want to learn more about themselves and make long-lasting changes in their lives. It may also help people with mild mental health conditions.

Most therapists have a master’s degree and may have a doctorate. All licensed therapists have to have at least a master’s degree.

Generally, therapists can’t prescribe medications. But in some states, psychologists with specialist pharmacology training can prescribe certain medications.

Psychiatrists

Psychiatrists are medical doctors who specialize in diagnosing and treating mental health conditions. Because they hold medical degrees, psychiatrists can prescribe medication.

Psychiatrists may use a combination of talk therapy and medication to treat mental health conditions.

Working with both a therapist and a psychiatrist may be the better option for people who experience more severe symptoms and may benefit from a combination of therapy and medication to help treat their symptoms.

Other types of mental health professionals

What they are	What they can do	Qualifications
Therapist	a mental health professional who can provide a safe space for people who want to talk through life issues, changes, or symptoms of a mental health condition	– perform talk therapy – diagnose and treat mental health conditions	– a master’s or doctorate degree – may specialize in a particular area, like marriage and family therapy or trauma processing
Psychiatrist	a person in the mental health field who focuses more on biological factors (genetics, social sciences, neurology, for instance)	– diagnose and treat mental health conditions – prescribe medications – order medical tests – perform a comprehensive mental health exam	– one of two medical degrees: doctor of medicine (MD) or doctor of osteopathic medicine (DO) – in the U.S., board certified by the American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology – 4-year residency
Psychologist	a mental health professional who uses talk therapy and psychological evaluations to help patients	– perform talk therapy – help clients with issues not related to specific mental health conditions, like stress, grief, or big life changes – administer exams and assessments to help diagnose a condition	– a doctorate degree – a 1-year full-time supervised internship during graduate school -a 1-year full-time supervised post-doctoral fellowship after graduate school – a national exam
Social worker	a professional who works with different types of people and communities to help guide them to living a healthier, happier life	– work in settings like hospitals, mental health facilities, schools, and halfway houses – coach individuals or groups by discussing issues like communication, empathy, organizational techniques, and self-care skills	– a master’s degree in social work (MSW) – 2 years of supervised clinical experience after graduate school – a license in the state they practice in
Licensed professional counselor	someone who may specialize in a certain type of therapy approach (cognitive behavioral therapy, CBT, or interpersonal therapy, for example) and may work alongside a person’s medical doctors to provide a more holistic approach to therapy	– perform talk therapy – treat mental health conditions and issues like anxiety, depression, phobias, bipolar disorder, and others – in some states, they can provide a diagnosis	– licensing varies by state, but many have a master’s degree in counseling and 2–3 years of supervised experience

How much does therapy cost?

The cost of therapy can depend on the type of therapy, the therapist’s experience, and whether you’re talking with a therapist in person or through teletherapy.

Therapists may charge between $100 and $200 per session for in-person appointments. But in bigger cities, therapy can cost more. Some therapists may offer sliding scale rates. If you have insurance, you may pay a portion of the fee depending on your coverage.

Teletherapy is generally less costly. The price per session starts at around $50. Some platforms offer unlimited therapy with a weekly or monthly subscription.

What types of therapy are there?

There are many different types of therapy, and the type you choose will depend on your needs and preferences. Some common types include:

• Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT): CBT helps you identify and change negative thinking patterns and behaviors.
• Dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT):DBT combines elements of CBT with structured skill-building in mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness.
• Psychodynamic therapy: This type of therapy focuses on your unconscious thoughts and emotions.
• Interpersonal therapy: The focus of interpersonal therapy is on your relationships with other people.
• Family therapy: This type of therapy helps families resolve conflict and improve communication.
• Group therapy: In this type of therapy, you meet with a group of people who share similar experiences.
• Art therapy: This type of therapy uses art to express emotions and help process trauma.
• Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) therapy:EMDR is an interactive form of psychotherapy used to relieve psychological and trauma-based stress.

What are the benefits of therapy?

Therapy has several benefits, including improving mental health, resolving personal issues, and increasing self-awareness. Therapy can also help people learn new coping skills and manage stress.

Some people see therapy as a way to prevent mental health issues or as a way to address underlying causes of mental health conditions. Others use therapy to work through traumas or difficult life events.

Therapy is an effective treatment for many mental health conditions, including anxiety, depression, PTSD, and eating disorders.

Whether you’re coping with grief, trauma, or relationship issues, or want treatment for a mental health condition, finding a helpful therapist can make a big difference in your journey.

To find a therapist who’s a good fit, start by considering practical matters like licensure, insurance coverage, location, and specialties.

You may find that friends, colleagues, and healthcare professionals are a good source of referrals. You may also find options by using search tools provided by organizations that address your specific concerns.

When you’ve narrowed down your choices, you may find it helpful to think about your goals and questions. This way you can be sure you and your therapist are well matched and aligned on your treatment plan.

Ultimately, finding the right therapist is a personal matter. Human connection is at the heart of effective therapy, and you can build that sense of connection whether you talk with your therapist in person, on the phone, or online.

Last medically reviewed on April 12, 2023